It's Friday and it has not been a good day. I can't wait to get home, run a hot bath and relax. Although I am going to the gym again after work. Did I mention that I hurt? Today it's still my sides. I can't bend from side to side but that's ok.

There is some truth to the old adage that human beings (as are most organisms) are pleasure-seeking, pain avoidant creatures. I know some people don't like this thought b/c it means that we aren't in control of our actions. but there is the rub. W

is that that muthaeffa can just show up at your crib anytime and demand his kitty rights! Mr. Shay called me yesterday at like 4:30 talking about, I am in jersey, I want my cat! What the ef?!?!?! You mean to tell me that you couldnt call me yesterd

darnit, my legs hurt so friggin bad!!! I was being productive and went to the gym on Sunday and decided to work my legs. BIG MISTAKE!!! I am so friggin sore, I can barely walk. My butt is killing me. Hopefully all this pain will pay off in a bett

let's see where i am at in this blog?  i think i am behind, but no matter.  so on thursday i go to an alumni event with open bar and take some folks from my office.  it was really fun b/c i got to learn a whole lot about people. 

ok, gents you might want to stop reading here b/c this one is definitely for my ladies. why the ef do I have to pay almost $6 for a box of effin tampons? I mean really...don't say that you can by generic b/c if you have ever had to deal w/ a leak

ok, so yall know how Grace (the cat) is really crazy for pounce (well maybe not, but she will literally bite your finger off if she thinks you got some pounce for her). So I had hid a can of pounce in my dresser drawer b/c i give her and magic treats

exhausted. Ok, and I am behind on my blogging and ranting and raving for the day and a few stories. Ok, so Friday I was tired and I had to wash and blow my hair out b/c I didn't care anymore. I was getting my hair braided come hell or high water

It is true that blogs are very carthartic and satisfy the need for attention some of us have. But like the recent article in the NY times you do have to be careful what you write. One way to get around that is not to write anything you wouldn't tel

you put on two different shoes. I straight had on two different sneakers. Isn't that a mess? I was grabbing one and didn't notice until I got on the elevator at work!!! HAHAHAHAHAHAHA I overslept and shut my alarm off and once again the cats

wow, I am really fast at work b/c I finished a whole days work in like 2 hours. Either that or I need more work. Actually there are some smaller projects I will be working on. So last week, I skip work on Friday. Boy did I need that. I mean I

this picture was really cute  

Ok, this blog will be a two parter b/c there is so much to say. so last friday I go to DC to visit my mother. I know I can't afford to and I dont have any money, but hey it's your moms so what are you going to do. First, I go to Madgirl's aparme

Do you get the irony of the above statement. So my girl who got her first cover story on the Jersey page writing about how suburbanite teennagers are dressin like hookers and having sex at 14 with old a$$ men borrowed the critters for homeopathic rod

and share a moment. So I am on the subway sitting next to the door and this guy who is of the same race I am is sitting across from me. Now this touristy/yuppie guy gets on w/ shorts. Now it's warm on Monday in the sun when the breeze isn't blowin

If you are going to wear sandals, then put lotion on your feet. I don't care if you think you have dark skin or not. if your feet look like they are kicking flour, then put some lotion on them!!! 2) wearing sheer shirts w/ bras is not a good way

so, I went to my five year reunion full committee meeting. it went very well and was very productive. it's so weird that we are all adult like now and grown up and conducting meetings with the business acumen that we have learned. I am exhaust

don't forget to leave comments to let me know who is checkin' out my spot!!! ok, I did a lot this weekend, but still didn't get the weekend rest that I needed. Friday was a HORRIBLE day at work. I mean just plain bad. I was counting down the

5, 4, 3, 2, 1. Breathe in hold, breathe out and feel all the anger and frustration leaving your body. Never hold onto bad energies. Try to release them in some manner. I know I have been guilty of trying to cover my a$$ but at least I usually kno